Believe people when they tell you where they’re at in dating—don’t get caught up in their potential. The most important thing you can do to honor yourself is to know what you want, believe you deserve it, and stick to it. If someone says they aren’t looking for a relationship, believe them and let them go. Focus on someone who not only wants what you want but also shows you—through their time, care, and attention—that you deserve it.

Creating change is about consistency over time… not burning yourself out by creating too much change at once. Energy fluctuates daily so your 100% today could look different from your 100% tomorrow. If you’re trying to create any changes, ask yourself what’s sustainable over time — not how to create the fastest results right away because that’ll burn you out every time ❤️

One of the biggest issues in relationships is the lack of honesty—whether it’s not setting clear boundaries or constantly worrying about other people’s feelings. But here’s the thing… honesty in relationships is about prioritizing your happiness, not protecting someone else’s comfort. When you speak your truth and set healthy boundaries, you’re honoring the relationship you have with yourself. Allowing you to be authentic to what’s right for YOU. 💖

Self-sabotage looses all of its power once you realize that it’s happening Maybe you overthink every decision, wait for the perfect time, shrink yourself to make others comfortable, or talk yourself out of opportunities before you even try... but as soon as you recognize the sign, you’re able to choose differently. Not only is creating change possible, you’re going to feel so much better once you stop letting fears hold you back. What hold you back the most? #overcomeselfsabotage #confidence #growth

Jealousy can show up in some pretty unexpected ways—like subtle criticism, passive-aggressive comments, or even just a weird vibe. If people are jealous of you and your journey, it’s important to set boundaries and not take it personally. Dealing with jealousy is all about protecting your peace and staying focused on your own growth. Don’t let their insecurities dim your light 💖

If you haven’t learned the right tools to deal with emotions or how to handle things in a healthier way, it’s easy to feel stuck. But.. the good news is emotional intelligence is something you can develop. With the right approach, you can start responding in ways that actually help you. Learning how to manage emotions will give you more control and help you grow into a version of yourself that feels more aligned and at peace. 💖